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I can agree
Except for the get rite with God part if we arent rite with God we go to hell and rite now (speaking for my own person) im rite with God. I can always get closer to Him or grow in Him but dats a different story then being in bad terms with Him. Trust is a biggie. If there is no trust theres no relationship. Our relationship with God is based on trust isnt it? So must ours. And just like we need communication, respect, honesty and all those essential things with God, we can learn to transfer them to us. But definitely seeking Him above all. Last but not least, we must make sure that we apply Matt. 7:7 Do unto others what you want done unto you. And im not throwing it at you. We both need to apply things to ourselves first. As leaders, preachers, teachers and a couple. Be blessed.
-.- really i just wrote this nice, long post and it didnt post nor save it -.-
Main point is that youre right. This is not what i wanted, looked for nor waited for. I wanted a relationship where the love would overflow, along with respect. I wanted to be with someone I could love with all my heart, submit to and make happy. Now in this relationship, i feel i have to have my heart on lock-down because unsecurity, cant submit because othe lost respect and cant make you happy because im unhappy. And i feel this is the result of non-existing relationship with God. Because regardless of how we both say we pray or read and share the word. If we really had a close relationship with God; we would have His love, kindness, patience, joy, self-control, mercy and much more because it is His Spirit in us. I can go on how you made this bad; just like you can go on on how i did it wrong and we dont want that otherwise its better we ended here. The only solution i can come with is to first, get right with God, build our relationship with Him, forgive each other, pray for each other and start all over. friendship, respect, communication. Not demanding, controlling nor pointing fingers at what the other person did wrong. Because God wouldnt do that unless he demaned holiness from us, wanted full control of our life to transform it and pointed His finger to us saying ” I love you my son/n daughter”
God is the only that can redeem us, i mean if it werent for Him we wouldnt have salvation nor would we have met.
It sucks
The extent we have reached b.c I am completely sure that its not what we both want or look for. I do care and love you. The hardest thing bout all this is that not only do we suffer emotionally, but spiritually as well. My only hope for us is prayer; fervent and earnest prayer. Lack of understanding, respect and also misinterpretations have doomed us. God is the only remedy and guidance.
